My Wish On Your 18th….

My 18th year birthday wish for you…

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I wish for you to always be the happy person that you are, continue to giggle uncontrollably when you see something crazy on your ipad and then rewind to that part 500 times because you can.

I wish for you to continue to control your own stylish wardrobe, and if you feel shorts are to be worn during summer and winter, you rock those shorts until they become the latest trend.

I wish for you to always make those strange noises that may sound like a tragedy to others but to me is music to my ears. I think words are overrated and your silent communication is so powerful.

I wish that you will continue to thrive in your learning, yes i get that you’d rather be lounging in your bed watching a movie, but unfortunately you live in the real world. Plus you’re one of the most intelligent teens i know so i think you should continue to share that with the world.

I wish for you to sleep late on weekends and to stop being a typical teen that refuses to get up during the week days. We have places to go and people to see…..the life of a celebrity teen can be brutal.

I wish that you will never allow your disability to hinder you…..who am i kidding, you rock autism and it looks so good on you. I’m thinking about catching a case of it myself, but i could never make it look as good as you do.

I wish for you to find a career that will make you happy and that in it you will thrive.  It will be difficult because Bermuda is not yet ready for you, but you’re use to overcoming adversity so i have faith that you got this.

I wish for you to know that for every person that looks at you like there’s something wrong with you, there are five hundred others standing by your side. We can’t control how others see us but we do control how we see them and you understand that humans can make mistakes.

My final wish for you on your 18th birthday is that you remember that you are perfect just the way you are.  You may not talk,  you may not understand everything and you may not understand everyone in your world, but because of that you do not worry about what others say, you have no care about if they like you or not and you live your life with happiness in your heart. Such a perfect life! I am so jelous. 

So happy 18th Birthday my superstar….may all your wishes come true. 

Ps. not sure how you got 18 when I’m still 25, just doesn’t add up.

Love,
Mom

23 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Erica Smith
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 02:26:02

    Awww – Thea you are making me cry…. Happy 18th Birthday to my fantastic Nephew!! We love you Cire’!!!!

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  2. Donna Robinson
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 06:58:34

    Beautiful words written by AND for two beautiful people. I love you both! Happy Birthday Ciré.

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  3. Stacy
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 07:59:09

    Amazing! Unique, funny, beautiful, not you momma, my nephew! Lol! Happy birthday Cire’

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  4. Toni
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 08:38:27

    Wow…..what a beautiful post Weezy. Happy 18th Birthday Ray Ray! Love you guys. 😚❤❤

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  5. Chris
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 10:02:46

    This is beautiful Thea! So proud of you both, over coming so much but always choosing joy. Love to you both.

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  6. Yvonne
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 10:10:14

    Ciré is amazing because he takes after his amazing Mom! Thea, both of your are so inspiring! Lots of love and miss you and his crazy adventure stories!!!! *evey

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  7. trish
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 10:11:03

    Thea and Cire…you are two of my most favorite people in the world. we live in this world of autism together and with the two of you in my life all is better….cire..your mom and i have fought some battles..but dont you worry…we will never give up the fight!! love you guys!!!

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  8. Deidre Shakir
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 13:46:55

    Amazing and beautiful words!! Happy 18th to your wonderful young man! All the best to both of you today and always.

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  9. Leila
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 18:35:52

    Thanks for this Thea Happy Earth Day Cirque 😘

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  10. Leila
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 18:35:53

    Thanks for this Thea Happy Earth Day Cirque 😘

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  11. Berlene
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 20:31:36

    Thea….this is sooooooooo beautiful!!! I had to choke back the tears! 18 already! Where has the time gone! We love our great nephew and love the hugs I (the auntie) get on occasion! Our wish for Cire is that he will continue to thrive and grow and be the happy and mischievous person that we all know and love.
    Blessings and love to you both…..Uncle Butch n Aunt Berlene

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  12. Vernette
    Oct 20, 2015 @ 21:54:52

    Happy birthday Cire!

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